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Mom pens moving letter to the woman who gave her ‘the look’ when her son picks a Barbie

5-year-old Penn shopping for his favorite doll at Target with his mom

The woman saw the boy, who was wearing a bright pink headband that day, and gave an unexpected reaction

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5-year-old Penn shopping for his favorite doll at Target with his mom

A woman, whose son wants to get a Barbie at Target, received a rather surprising reaction from another mother shopping at the store.

Maya Alderman shares in a Facebook post that she and her boy were at the Barbie toy section when they met another family with two boys.

Alderman writes that she was actually filled with anxiety shopping that day because she feared that people would judge her son, who had chosen to wear a pink headband.

But when she made eye contact with the woman as they crossed path, instead of judgment, something else happened. Read:

‘You don’t know me, and I don’t know you. Because you don’t know me, you don’t know about the daily war I wage with my anxiety and that being an anxious person makes me overly aware of my surroundings, usually to a fault. So when I walked past you with my son — who on that morning chose a fuchsia rose headband to wear with his Batman flip flops — as he pulled me towards the Barbie section, I saw you. I saw the look.

‘Going places with my son can be difficult for me. I panic when I think of the stares and the thoughts people are thinking about him. He, thankfully, does not appear to notice or care. On this particular outing, we were going to buy him a new Barbie with the money he’d saved. Oh, if you could’ve seen the happiness on his face when we arrived at the all pink-purple-and-glitter aisle filled to the brim with beautiful dolls. Pure. Innocent. Joy.

‘But we passed you with your husband and sons in the aisle filled with trucks and action figures, so you did not get to see that joy. You probably didn’t notice me catch my breath as we approached your family in that aisle, wondering what my reaction would be should you or one of your sons point and laugh. But I noticed you. I saw you.

‘You looked down at my boy with his pretty headband and beaming blue eyes, and then you looked up at me. Our eyes met, and you smiled. You smiled. And then you looked back at your boys who were staring at my son, and you smiled at them. And so they went back to picking out Hot Wheels, and we went on to find the perfect ballerina Barbie doll.

‘It was a mom-to-mom high five. No words exchanged, no hand gestures… just a smile and a small reassurance that maybe it’s all going to be all right. Right there in the toy section of Target of all places. So thank you. Thank you for noticing my son and making sure your boys saw that his differences were just fine with you. Thank you for easing my anxiety that morning. Thank you for giving me the look.’

Alderman’s open letter has since gone viral, and also got published on The Mighty, a website on parenting and mental health.

Well, we are glad that Alderman is so accepting of her son, Penn, who’s having all the fun with his Barbie dolls.

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Written by Dario

My name is Dario, I’m 44 years young and I live in Croatia (at the moment). I’m not a writer, so please don’t expect any kind of up level stories or posts from me! 😉 I’m just trying to do my best to put a smile on everyone’s face whenever it’s possible.

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